How to Keep Not Settling

How to Keep Not Settling

What you want exists: if you can imagine it to be true, then it is. So why settle for anything less? Settling for what you don’t want is a gigantic neon sign that you don’t truly believe you can have – or that you deserve – what it is that you...
How to Let it Be Easy

How to Let it Be Easy

My friend asked me this question at the beginning of the week, and it shaped my perspective all week.  We expect things will be hard.  We anticipate drama and struggle.  We value the “working for it” and feel oddly settled by the stress and anxiety of it...
How to Follow Through

How to Follow Through

Lots of ideas, little execution, am I right? Following through is one of the greatest challenges many of us face, particularly if we are of the creative nature.  Coming up with the next great idea is never an issue – but putting it into action is – unless...
How to Take a compliment

How to Take a compliment

I spend a lot of time with women. Women make up the bulk of my colleagues, my friends, my clients, my readers, my followers, my audience – hell even my children are on their way to becoming women. And what I can tell you from spending so much time in person, on...
How to Change Your Perspective

How to Change Your Perspective

*Originally published here, for THE LIFE by Jules Perspective is everything. That’s a phrase we hear all the time, probably without paying much attention to it.  But go back and read it again, really slowly this time. Perspective.  Is.  Everything. I have a secret to...