In short, be the perfect partner for you.
No more chasing.
No more fighting to be seen and heard.
No more begging for scraps of attention and affection.
No more endless searching.
No more feeling like you need to prove your worth and worthiness to someone, anyone else.
Because when you’re chasing, you’re running from yourself. When you’re fighting to be seen and heard, you’re not looking at or listening to yourself.
When you’re begging for attention and affection, you’re ignoring the person right in front of you. When you’re searching, you’re leaving yourself behind.
And when you feel you have to prove your worth and worthiness to someone, you’re letting the lie play out that you aren’t good enough as you are.
And you know what? You’re more than good enough as you are. You are f***ing great. You are strong, badass, brave, brilliant, beautiful, tenacious, and resilient AF. And you made you that way.
If someone else can’t see that naturally, or you feel the need to have to prove yourself over and over, honey, you have to come back home to you. Ain’t nobody coming to rescue you from yourself; you complete you, and even if you’re the only one who doesn’t know it, you belong to yourself.
You complete you.
Stop fighting it so hard.