How to Believe in True Love…Again

How to Believe in True Love…Again

 I am a sucker for a good love story.   I am one hundred percent, fully, completely, wholeheartedly in love with love.  In my experience, everybody has a good love story, and is ever so eager to tell it, if you give them the chance; if you ever want to bring instant...
How to Take a compliment

How to Take a compliment

I spend a lot of time with women. Women make up the bulk of my colleagues, my friends, my clients, my readers, my followers, my audience – hell even my children are on their way to becoming women. And what I can tell you from spending so much time in person, on...
How to Change Your Perspective

How to Change Your Perspective

*Originally published here, for THE LIFE by Jules Perspective is everything. That’s a phrase we hear all the time, probably without paying much attention to it.  But go back and read it again, really slowly this time. Perspective.  Is.  Everything. I have a secret to...
how to re-write your story in six little words

how to re-write your story in six little words

We are very good at playing tricks on ourselves. That is to say, we are very good at creating a narrative in our heads that is rife with emotion, full of drama, and allows us to sit in a state of discomfort.  We are so good at this, in fact, we can convince ourselves...
How to Start Over

How to Start Over

Crisis has a funny way of driving us to become the phoenix of our own life. I was invited to be a guest on The New Family Podcast recently, to talk about exactly this, and how divorce – though painful and difficult AF – can be a catalyst to spark massive...