How to shape your child’s inner voice

How to shape your child’s inner voice

*This piece was written for, and originally published at, The Unfit Parent You know that feeling, right before you’re about to make a decision, or just after you’ve received great news?  That feeling of a whisper in your brain that – unsolicited – weighs in with...
How to Take a compliment

How to Take a compliment

I spend a lot of time with women. Women make up the bulk of my colleagues, my friends, my clients, my readers, my followers, my audience – hell even my children are on their way to becoming women. And what I can tell you from spending so much time in person, on...
How to Change Your Perspective

How to Change Your Perspective

*Originally published here, for THE LIFE by Jules Perspective is everything. That’s a phrase we hear all the time, probably without paying much attention to it.  But go back and read it again, really slowly this time. Perspective.  Is.  Everything. I have a secret to...
how to re-write your story in six little words

how to re-write your story in six little words

We are very good at playing tricks on ourselves. That is to say, we are very good at creating a narrative in our heads that is rife with emotion, full of drama, and allows us to sit in a state of discomfort.  We are so good at this, in fact, we can convince ourselves...
How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others

How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others

Your 30’s is a really interesting decade of life milestones.  There are people still getting married, people now getting divorced.  People having first babies, people getting snipped.  People finishing school, people starting second or third careers. It’s...